In my year and a half of being a spankee I have picked up tips on spanking from other more experienced spankee's and spanker's so every now and then I would like to share some of these with you. When I first got involved with any form of BDSM I really didn't know what I was doing at all. It has been trial and error so to speak on my part. So I thought it might be a good idea to pass on some of what I have learned. You can add other things or correct me if you feel I am wrong (we all have our on views on things!).
The first tip I am going to share with you is something that has been on my mind this week. I witnessed the aftermath of what happened. I was in another room when it occurred so only saw the aftercare administered. But it is something that I wont forget and would like to say that it was dealt with in a very professional way, by people who knew how to deal with the situation.
Tip 1. Fainting
Now I know it sounds very bad but dealt with in the right way it shouldn't be too harmful.
Spanking can be very intense and yes sometimes people can faint if they become a little bit overwhelmed. Make sure your sub/bottom has had something to eat beforehand if it is going to be a rather heavy scene and always provide a break for some water at some point during the session. If the sub/bottom feels a little dizzy during the scene stop for a while and maybe let him/her lie down until they feel better.
If they do faint make sure you check for breathing, heartbeat and make them as comfortable as possible by lying them in the recovery position. Don't panic at this point. Stay calm because one person passed out and the other panicking is not going to help the situation! They should come around in 1 or 2 minutes. If it lasts longer than 5 mins you should really call an ambulance. When the sub/bottom comes round make them comfortable and give them something to eat and drink when they can sit up. Then relax together, have a chat about what happened and try to get to work out what caused it IE not eating beforehand or being too hot. As long as the sub/bottom hasn't banged his/her head or hurt anything else when he/she fainted, everything should be fine. I wouldn't carry on with the scene afterwards if it was me. I also state that this is just my advice not medically proven.
Tuesday, 13 October 2009
Monday, 12 October 2009
Daddy's Girl by Stella Black
When I was younger I loved the film pretty women. The older richer man who rescued the girl from a life of debauchery. Loads of my friends loved it as well. I guess there is part of me that is the damsel that wants to be rescued and brought loads of nice things. lol.
A few of years ago I came across a book Called daddy's girl by the author Stella Black. She was in her twenties and met an older man at a party. He didn't rescue her, but they did lead a life of what the press in this country would call debauchery! They had a D/S relationship and she stayed with him a lot. He brought her clothes, shoes and sometimes toys. He would tell her what to wear and set bedtimes for her. He would also punish her if she got out of hand and this would lead to sex if he felt like it. She often went missing for periods of time which would anger him immensely.
I really enjoyed this book. I can remember one chapter where they visited a toy shop. She wanted a Dalek, well she filled her trolley high with loads of them and when she met him at the counter he refused to buy her them. He had taken her there for a costume( I can't remember what it was). She threw a tantrum and he ordered her to go outside to wait for him at the car.
When he met her outside he put her over the bonnet of the car with his driver watching and spanked the life out of her right there in the car park. He said he didn't care what people thought about it. I think they might of had sex in the car on the way back, can't remember. And when they got home he gave her a Dalek and the costume that he had purchased for her.
If I could choose between being Julia Roberts in pretty women or Stella Black I would definitely choose the Stella Black version. I have never been spanked in public, well only buy my mother. So its something that I would like to try one day and I also love that book, because she truly was a brat. I wish I still had it. i think a trip to the book store is needed.
A few of years ago I came across a book Called daddy's girl by the author Stella Black. She was in her twenties and met an older man at a party. He didn't rescue her, but they did lead a life of what the press in this country would call debauchery! They had a D/S relationship and she stayed with him a lot. He brought her clothes, shoes and sometimes toys. He would tell her what to wear and set bedtimes for her. He would also punish her if she got out of hand and this would lead to sex if he felt like it. She often went missing for periods of time which would anger him immensely.
I really enjoyed this book. I can remember one chapter where they visited a toy shop. She wanted a Dalek, well she filled her trolley high with loads of them and when she met him at the counter he refused to buy her them. He had taken her there for a costume( I can't remember what it was). She threw a tantrum and he ordered her to go outside to wait for him at the car.
When he met her outside he put her over the bonnet of the car with his driver watching and spanked the life out of her right there in the car park. He said he didn't care what people thought about it. I think they might of had sex in the car on the way back, can't remember. And when they got home he gave her a Dalek and the costume that he had purchased for her.
If I could choose between being Julia Roberts in pretty women or Stella Black I would definitely choose the Stella Black version. I have never been spanked in public, well only buy my mother. So its something that I would like to try one day and I also love that book, because she truly was a brat. I wish I still had it. i think a trip to the book store is needed.
you can watch me.........
..........On Sam's Diaries now. It really is a good website and great value for money. Sam Johnson has some of the best spanking Models In the UK featured on her site and she is always updating the video diaries and photo diaries. So please do go and have a look. It's always a great treat for me to work with Sam and I have done some of my favourite scenes for her. Here are some pics from the shoot. enjoy.. 
Sunday, 11 October 2009
Just a quicky
Not updated for a little while and yes I been a busy girl. I'm taking it easy this week as I have an event on Friday that might just knock the stuffing out of my plump derriere. I was very scared about this, I seem to have chilled out a bit today and I am trying to take it in my stride without winding myself up so much that I am a nervous wreck by the time Friday comes.
I tried a new thing that I have never tried before and wondered whether or not I should mention it. I have decided to mention it but will not be playing like this in all my 1-2-1's as I just felt it was a bit of a personal challenge and wanted to try it. I took a wooden paddle on my bottom in what the guy called swats, I think that is an American term for strokes. I know that in some states of America they still use a wooden paddle as punishment. It was an interesting sensation and I'm am happy to report no bruising or lasting damage I can see or feel. It was intense but also had an after effect that I really enjoyed, almost like a heat rash. That really got me wriggling. I think I threw him a little in the role play when I said I would rather just be expelled from school than take a paddle. lol.
I also had a rather strange encounter with a guy I Dom. Well not really strange but it goes to prove how small London can be sometimes. My grandad had been taken ill in hospital so I went to visit him with my sister. I was a bit emotional and wasn't really paying attention to what was going on around but out of the corner of my eye could see someone trying to get information about one of his relatives who was in the opposite bed to my grandad. Then I thought to myself I recognise that voice and I sure bloody did. When we caught each others eye I gave a little nod and a smile. I don't think he was worried that I was going to spill the beans so to speak, but it was still very surreal. I couldn't help but think about the last time I had him over my knee and gave him a good spanking!
It got me chatting to my sister on the way home about when we were kids. I told her that I knew the guy at the hospital and how I did. She told me that she always knew I was a bit different to her because of the games I made her play when we were little. I don't know where I got my ideas from. She says that its not really affected her. I used to make her play mummy's and children. Once the game went a bit wrong and I got in trouble from my mum. I had been giving her strokes of the belt across her bottom with the belt doubled over and the buckle in my hand. Then I gave her the belt and told her to do the same to me. She got a bit carried away or just wanted revenge and whacked me over the head with the buckle end which cut my head. I was OK until I saw the blood and went crying to my mum. Mum asked what happened and then told me it was my own fault for making my little sister play the game and gave me slap. didn't play that game for a long time after. I also used to make her play cops and robbers. I would of course be the cop and her the robber. I would capture her and tie her up and just sit and watch her. I got no sexual kick out of this, I think I just like the power. I did a lot more stuff to my poor sister, but will leave that for another post.
Oh and then there was hooker barbie who used to strip to my hummed music, I think she really was a stripper but I didn't know what one was so we just called her hooker barbie....The poor thing was burnt and hanged and ken did have his wicked way with her. I think I would choke if I caught my little girl playing hooker barbie but then she lives a lot more sheltered life than I did.
I will keep you posted on my recovery from Friday and also let you know how it went and what it felt like (that's if i don't book a swift holiday to a far away place lol)
I will leave you with some pictures of me being spanked and birched dressed as a robber. Can't say I look very sorry for the crime I commited!
I tried a new thing that I have never tried before and wondered whether or not I should mention it. I have decided to mention it but will not be playing like this in all my 1-2-1's as I just felt it was a bit of a personal challenge and wanted to try it. I took a wooden paddle on my bottom in what the guy called swats, I think that is an American term for strokes. I know that in some states of America they still use a wooden paddle as punishment. It was an interesting sensation and I'm am happy to report no bruising or lasting damage I can see or feel. It was intense but also had an after effect that I really enjoyed, almost like a heat rash. That really got me wriggling. I think I threw him a little in the role play when I said I would rather just be expelled from school than take a paddle. lol.
I also had a rather strange encounter with a guy I Dom. Well not really strange but it goes to prove how small London can be sometimes. My grandad had been taken ill in hospital so I went to visit him with my sister. I was a bit emotional and wasn't really paying attention to what was going on around but out of the corner of my eye could see someone trying to get information about one of his relatives who was in the opposite bed to my grandad. Then I thought to myself I recognise that voice and I sure bloody did. When we caught each others eye I gave a little nod and a smile. I don't think he was worried that I was going to spill the beans so to speak, but it was still very surreal. I couldn't help but think about the last time I had him over my knee and gave him a good spanking!
It got me chatting to my sister on the way home about when we were kids. I told her that I knew the guy at the hospital and how I did. She told me that she always knew I was a bit different to her because of the games I made her play when we were little. I don't know where I got my ideas from. She says that its not really affected her. I used to make her play mummy's and children. Once the game went a bit wrong and I got in trouble from my mum. I had been giving her strokes of the belt across her bottom with the belt doubled over and the buckle in my hand. Then I gave her the belt and told her to do the same to me. She got a bit carried away or just wanted revenge and whacked me over the head with the buckle end which cut my head. I was OK until I saw the blood and went crying to my mum. Mum asked what happened and then told me it was my own fault for making my little sister play the game and gave me slap. didn't play that game for a long time after. I also used to make her play cops and robbers. I would of course be the cop and her the robber. I would capture her and tie her up and just sit and watch her. I got no sexual kick out of this, I think I just like the power. I did a lot more stuff to my poor sister, but will leave that for another post.
Oh and then there was hooker barbie who used to strip to my hummed music, I think she really was a stripper but I didn't know what one was so we just called her hooker barbie....The poor thing was burnt and hanged and ken did have his wicked way with her. I think I would choke if I caught my little girl playing hooker barbie but then she lives a lot more sheltered life than I did.
I will keep you posted on my recovery from Friday and also let you know how it went and what it felt like (that's if i don't book a swift holiday to a far away place lol)
I will leave you with some pictures of me being spanked and birched dressed as a robber. Can't say I look very sorry for the crime I commited!
Friday, 25 September 2009
Can't sleep
So I just thought I would ramble on a bit. I'm wondering how Andi's bum is. I know how it looks because I have seen her twitter pics OUCH!!!!!!
I'm slightly(VERY) nervous about the forthcoming event that I am going to participate in later next month. I mean, should I be nervous already....well after today I think maybe YES.
I had a really good 1-2-1 today, which I might add I wasn't on the receiving end for. So maybe I am still flying from that. I enjoy giving just as much as I enjoy taking. Me being the strict auntie and him being the thieving nephew who stole money from my purse and then got sent to me when his mother found it in his trouser pocket. Of course the punishment was severe, he had already been dealt with by me the week before, for being rude when he was staying at grandma's. Silly boy. I'm not sure he will be doing it again. Shame if he doesn't. lol
Anyway that's enough rambling from a very sleep deprived Aleesha.
Night
I'm slightly(VERY) nervous about the forthcoming event that I am going to participate in later next month. I mean, should I be nervous already....well after today I think maybe YES.
I had a really good 1-2-1 today, which I might add I wasn't on the receiving end for. So maybe I am still flying from that. I enjoy giving just as much as I enjoy taking. Me being the strict auntie and him being the thieving nephew who stole money from my purse and then got sent to me when his mother found it in his trouser pocket. Of course the punishment was severe, he had already been dealt with by me the week before, for being rude when he was staying at grandma's. Silly boy. I'm not sure he will be doing it again. Shame if he doesn't. lol
Anyway that's enough rambling from a very sleep deprived Aleesha.
Night
Thursday, 24 September 2009
Today
Woke up this morning rather late which didn't please me in the slightest, because I hate having to rush anywhere. Had it of been any other day I wouldn't of minded but today was Mistress Switch's D Day and I wasn't going to miss it. So off I rushed. No breakfast no make up and in true Aleesha style no real idea of what station I was going to (hey just call me miss organised). Once out the door I located my phone and retrieved message with the location if the venue and off I headed.
When I arrived I was lucky enough to see a friendly face coming out of the shop next to the station. We said our hello's and both agreed that it was truly a beautiful day for the forthcoming punishment which was going to be administered on MS's fine bottom. Once outside the venue, we met several other people, all standing around waiting in anticipation. I hadn't realised that it wasn't only MS who was going to be dealt with!
So in we went and waited for what felt like a lifetime. I couldn't help but notice how strong and athletic the Hunteress looked in her gym kit and trainers as she took a few running practice shots. The sound of the cane swooshing as she did.
Finally the moment came. In glided MS in a long coat, PVC stilettos and seamed stockings. I will let her tell you the rest on her blog. But what I will say is WOW!!!!! What an amazing women! or should that be two amazing lady's. I stayed and watched a few scenes that went on but sadly I had to go because I had a 1-2-1.
I will leave you with a picture of my handy work from the 1-2-1.
Monday, 14 September 2009
Water anyone?
Well peeps I have moved and my new flat is great, but I have had a few teething problems. Firstly I had no running hot water and no water connected to my boiler, which also meant I had no heating. They fixed the water to the boiler which gave me running hot water in the kitchen. But not in the bathroom and they couldn't make the heating work because I needed new pipes. They then came and fixed the water to the bathroom and they are due to fix my heating this Fri. So it came as a bit of a shock to me when someone knocked my door and informed that I have a massive pool of water gathering under my flat due to a leak. I am now waiting for the plumbers as I type this and to say I am a little stressed is an understatement. Maybe I should run and put my bikini on.
Back to the more fun things in life me thinks
Anyway enough of my moaning I have much better things to write about. I did a party last Mon at baker street and I must say that it was rather fab. Great bunch of girls Nicole, Roxy and one other who I won't name as I am never very sure which name is her scene name and which is her real name. It was a great party one of the best and relaxed. The only person missing was miss Quinn who could not make it as she had a rather nasty cold and didn't fancy passing it on to anyone else. I love the dynamics of a switch party. The fact that you get spanked and then get to return the favour appeals to me so much. As I have said to many people I am truly a switch. which also means I get the best of both worlds.
I am so glad to be back on the radar again and back to what I love best. To say the last month has been a bit glum is an understatement. I am lucky to have met so many good people on the scene and I must say I have missed my 1-2-1's and parties soo much. And not to mention the fact that my bottom is starting to feel like a spanking virgin once more. Not at all good. One needs a certain amount of punishment to keep one happy and not forgetting that one needs to dish out a certain amount of punishment to keep one happy!!!!
I have also had another very important matter on my mind and boy am I scared for her. Mistress Switch is to receive 50 strokes, full force run up from The Hunteress. I mean is the women crazy? Probably yes. I'm not sure I could do it and I have the most respect for Mistress Switch for doing it. yicks!!
That's all I have to say right now. See ya's
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