So today whilst having a text debate with someone, I was asked the following "Out of curiosity, why don't you get married or get a partner? You are stunningly beautiful, there would be men drooling over you. Just go get a rich man, maybe a little older than you and stop doing what you are doing"
Now this got the cogs in my brain working. Why would marrying someone be better than earning my own money the way that I choose to? Why is it socially acceptable to marry someone who is wealthy, that you may not like and not acceptable to earn money in the way that I choose? Is the women who marries a man for his wealth any better than a sex worker? because lets face it spanking can be a sexual act for some thus making me a sex worker of sorts. I was horrified by this sentence, truly. Are we not living in 2013? Oh so how I earn money is wrong but shacking up with Hugh Hefner for his cash is just fine. You can have everything you want, Just give your rich old man a blow job and he will reward you with clothes and diamonds. If that is what you want to do then that is fine. I am not saying that I would not get with someone older than me. I would just hope I did it for love. I want to earn my own money and be able to walk away and go back to my own life. Not be in a marriage that I am unhappy in just for wealth. I think it is about time that people face up to facts and stop being so uptight about sex work. It is a job like any other. You get spanked by your boss or whatever corporation you work for to earn your cash. I get spanked for mine by men who mostly treat me like a queen and can not for whatever reason tell their partner or do not have one to engage with. What's the difference? Because in my eye's there is not any. This is what I do. This is not pretty women. I am not waiting for Richard Gear to come and rescue me. I do this work out of choice, my choice and because most of the time believe it or not I ENJOY myself.
Now on a totally different note. I am going to have a rant about phone calls. I have had a heavy breathing wanker on the phone today with no intention of booking me what so ever. And also a man from the middle east who wanted my bank details to transfer over payment. Two words JOG ON!